3 Reasons to Never Question Your Worth Again

"Self-worth sets the standard that life meets." ~ Jewel

When you don’t get what you want in life, do you start to wonder if it’s because you don’t deserve it? The kind of relationship you want, the amount of money you want, the health, the happiness, the fulfillment.
Now, imagine for a moment what your life would be like if you never doubted yourself again.

I’m going to share with you 3 reasons why you should never, ever question your worthiness. And if these 3 aren’t enough, I have one more for you that I know will change everything. I promise.

I’ll be completely honest, this was a real struggle for me. It took me over four decades to truly feel worthy. Of course, I knew it intellectually, but it wasn’t enough. Even after I started working with others and helping them reclaim their worth, I was still questioning mine. It was painful, I felt like a fraud, and I hated it.
But I had some powerful realizations that changed everything. And now, I know that no matter what life brings to me, or doesn’t, it has nothing to do with how worthy I am. I know these insights can save you years, maybe even decades of wasted time, anxiety, depression, and missed opportunities to enjoy more love, abundance, success, and fulfillment.

Reason #1: You Were Born Worthy, and Nothing Can Change That

Have you ever seen a baby hesitate before asking to be fed or comforted? No! They do whatever they can, usually crying, to get what they need. And they don’t even feel guilty because they instinctively know they deserve to be taken care of.
Clearly, we weren’t born questioning our worth, it’s something we learned. When we don’t get what we want as children, we assume that something must be wrong with us, that we don’t deserve it. We internalize disappointment as a reflection of our value. Maybe that’s the best we can do as children, but why do we continue doing this as adults?

The truth is, there are many reasons we don’t get what we want:

• Maybe the person we expect it from can’t give it to us.
• Maybe we have to learn to fulfill this need ourselves.
• Maybe we need to communicate our needs more clearly.
• Or maybe what we think we want isn’t what we truly need, and something better is waiting for us.

But one thing is certain, you were born worthy, and nothing, no one, no circumstance, no event, can ever take that away.

Reason #2: Other People Don’t Define Our Worth, We Do

When we let others determine our worth, when we depend on their validation, approval, or opinions, we give away our power. We surrender control over our own lives to people and circumstances that are simply reflecting our own deeply held beliefs back to us.

Our environment is just like a mirror.

Let me explain, imagine waking up, looking in the mirror, and not liking how your hair looks. Something we can all relate to. Now, it would be pretty weird if we tried to fix our hair in the mirror instead of on our head, wouldn’t it? But this is exactly what we do in life. Of course, life is far more complex than messy hair in the morning, so it’s hard to see the connection between what’s happening inside us and how it’s reflected in our external reality. But here’s the truth, if we want to see a different reflection out there, we have to start by changing what’s happening in here.

That’s why the moment you reclaim your power and decide that you are worthy, your entire life begins to shift. Sooner or later, your reality will reflect what you believe to be true about yourself. It’s a Universal law.

Reason #3: A "No" Is Not a Rejection, It Means It’s Time to "KNOW"

How many times have you felt rejected? In a relationship, a job, an opportunity? And how many times have you taken it as proof that you’re not good enough?
This is a little embarrassing to share, but I used to be so afraid of being rejected by others that I chose to reject myself first, over and over, just so no one else could do it. Let me know in the comments if you can relate. And if you’re still doing it, I really hope you decide right now to never reject yourself again.
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• What if that "no," whether we say it to ourselves or someone else does, isn’t really rejection at all?
• What if it’s actually a sign from the universe, life, or God, that it’s time for us to KNOW something?
  
• It is not a N O, but a K N O W.
• What if we are not being denied our desire but redirected to where it can be fulfilled?
• What if we are being nudged, or even forced (because we’ve been a little stubborn), to the next level of our growth?
• Maybe it’s simply time for us to evolve into the next version of ourselves, the version for whom the things we want come naturally and easily.

I truly believe that the biggest reason we suffer is that we resist growth.

Think about it, we are part of a universe that is constantly expanding and evolving. That’s its nature, and because we are part of it, it is our nature too.  When we go against our nature, we block the life force moving through us, and we suffer. But when we KNOW that we are called to grow, and embrace it, we thrive. We succeed. We experience happiness and fulfillment. Because real fulfillment doesn’t come from what we get, it comes from who we become.

And If You Still Doubt Your Worth... Consider This:
Imagine going through your entire life still questioning your worthiness. And then, one day, at the very end of it all, you look back and wonder...

• What would my life have been like if I had never questioned myself?
• How much more love, success, abundance, and happiness could you have experienced if you had simply decided sooner that you deserved it all?
• What could you have done for the people you love and care about?
• What kind of impact could you have made in the world?

Please, don’t wait until it’s too late to realize how worthy you are.
You deserve to live the most beautiful, successful, meaningful, and impactful life.

So let this be the moment you make that decision! Let today be the day you reclaim your power!
Because you are worthy!

"If you want to improve your self-worth, stop giving other people the calculator." ~Tim Fargo